I used to love going to antique malls.
I still
go, but I used to enjoy it a lot more than I do now. I love the feeling of
being surrounded by old timey things my mother or grandmother used to use. They
bring up memories of my childhood, all warm, fuzzy, and campy.
There is
nothing like a huge dose of nostalgia to make you shell out 20 bucks for a tiny
bowl because your grandmother used to serve you pudding in it.
I chuckle
when I see some cheap old toy I’d bought for myself at the dime store back in
1965, now priced in the double digits.
“And my
mother said I wasted my allowance on a piece of crap,” I scoff. “Look at the
cash I’d have made if it hadn’t gotten thrown out.”
Your
average antique mall hits the sweet spot between the delicate fine art pieces
at Christie’s Auction and the calcified florist vases at Goodwill.
Need to replace
the Barbie head that your brother popped off and stuck in the oven? Somewhere
in the antique mall is a booth displaying an array of disembodied Barbie doll
heads and no one is creeped out by it.
Back in
the day, antique malls played music from the 30s and 40s as I rifled through
lace dresser scarves and orange reamers. Did I want to relive imprinting
homemade gnocchi on a version of my Aunt Marie’s milk glass vase or did I want
to serve martinis from a gilt-edged cocktail set at my next dinner party…which
would also be my first dinner party?
Antique malls
gave me the ability to visit that sanitized, glorified, fictionalized version
of the past that makes people binge the Turner Classic Movie channel.
But something
must have happened during the pandemic. When did MY stuff become the antiques?
And why
are they playing Kenny Loggins?
How am I
supposed to feel a sense of nostalgia when there are entire booths of what I
already have in my kitchen? Corning Ware is not an antique; it’s what I make
baked ziti in.
All the
useless junk I passed up at those home parties where you’re supposed to prove
your friendship to the host by purchasing wall sconces or an apple peeler –
they’re all there. In this I feel somewhat affirmed.
There was
an entire booth dedicated to kitchen décor, specifically farm animals and green
checks. That was a thing for about five years when my kids were little. Someone
would have green-checked goose cannisters, someone else, green-checked chicken
cannisters.
I was
feeling superior, having not succumbed to trendy fashion. I put it all in
plastic and that never goes out of…
…then I
found the Tupperware booth. Honestly – if you ever want to know how long a
couple has been married, check out the color of their Tupperware.
My last
refuge was textiles. I love to rifle through old clothing, even though I’ve
never gotten up the nerve to wear any of it in public. It takes a certain
amount of chutzpah to pull off a vintage look.
“Look, Diane.
Remember wearing these!” one lady exclaimed, pulling an item off the rack.
“Oh my
god, yes,” her friend answered. “Can you believe we went out in public wearing
that?”
They
screamed with laughter.
I hurried
to the door. Thank goodness I was wearing a coat.